THE INSECURE MAN……
Man or woman, we often require emotional uplift and moral boosting from our partner but when the topic becomes a cliche, creating a void in the relationship, then a substantial amount of attention should be given to it.
Contrary to popular beliefs, Insecurity on the part of a man is not always spouse related but personality related. Relationship history, upbringing, roughchildhood, bad parental influence among others are key common factors that contribute to ego bruise of an insecure man.
The clothes she wears become a problem and every friend of hers goes under your microscope for clearance. She can’t even hug a friend of the opposite sex because you tag is flirty. Freedom to hang out with friends is exclusive for you to stamp, even if its impromptu & what is worse is you tell yourself that it’s a norm.
No it’s not normal. No she’s not the problem, you are and the solution to every problem is accepting that there is a problem in the first place. Seeing the need to solve it. So ask yourself this honest question. Why do I feel so insecure with her? Is it just with her or this has been a trend?
The constant need to be reminded of being good enough for your spouse (either verbally or physically) is truly natural and almost inevitable for every being but to make insecurity a daily worship song in a relationship is emotionally draining & unhealthy.
If loosing her is what you dread, then you lost her already darling, she is only waiting for the perfect time to take a bow………..
Mild but Wild 