One of the most popular rules in marriage is never to discuss your spouse with a third party because it is believed to be key in Union destruction. Therefore couples live in pains and die in silence in bid to fulfill the societal third party cliche.
I’ve seen men drink themselves to sleep. I’ve seen women live on sleep pills only to wake up back to their troubles but hey, it’s okay because that’s what the society preaches.
They say a problem shared is half solved,yet we exempt marriage from the joy of this adage. ‘Take it all in till suicide crosses the mind’. No it’s not okay, if your ways of doing things yielded no result, then it’s high time you talked to someone. Yes someone I say. Of the one million and one people around you, talk to someone.
Someone productive, not destructive. Someone with constructive ideas on how to make a happy spouse, not conservative. Not everyone is out to destroy you as the society claims, some would give anything to see you happy. Others can see the troubles beyond your smiles already and are only waiting for you to share.
Someone is waiting for you to seek help, so Get up & Get help………
Mild but Wild 